A month or so ago I went to a confrence for only girls. It was talking about abstience, and I've always planned on saving myself for 'the one'. My only reason was because I was a Christian, and it was just something that we did.
Well at this confrence the speaker gave us more reasons to wait for the right guy. The guy that you wanted to spend the rest of your life, as if that wasn't enough for me.
So, she went on to give us demonstrations and examples.
She told us how we shouldn't let a guy treat us like a paper plate. We are like that fine china. The kind that you only use during special occassions. Special stuff. She began to show us a paper plate. Something that you use once and the throw away. She stressed that we are worth so much more than that. More than a one time thing. Don't let a guy use you and then throw you away.
Then, she went on to give more examples. There was one that I really liked though.
"Now girls, close your eyes. Picture the guy, and I mean THE guy. The one that will be your husband. The one that will be the father of your kids. Yeah, him. Now, picture another girl sleeping with him."
A lot of the girls in the room gasped.
"Yeah. Not a good feeling. So, you don't want him messing around with other girls now. I doubt that he wants you sleeping with another guy either."
I loved that example. I think that sealed the deal for me.
I want to be a virgin for my husband. I want him to be the only man I'm ever with like that. Ever.
That's for you, future husband.
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